| 1. I need some advice. You see, people at my school are very mean to me. It seems as if everyday this kid looks at me and smiles, but not a friendly smile. He’s the worst kid because he always tells me stuff like “Mary, you are the ugliest person in the world. Go on a diet, b****” or “You’re hott!!! NOT! Ew, you’re the sickest person ever!” and other stuff like that, but I’ve even told him to shut every once in a while. I’ve talked to teachers and my parents, but my mom and dad told me it was my music doing it to me, so they told me I could listen to one CD. My teachers were just making it worse when they used my name while telling him to stop. I want to go to our school counselor, but I don’t want my parents to think I’m a wimp or take every other thing that I love to do away! And if I did ask them to go, they would just tell me to get over whatever it is that’s bugging me but it’s too hard! I need help!! Please get back to me when ever possible!
Seems like this person reminds me of my worst enemy, Robby. He always picks on me. It isn't wrong to go to a counselor. It doesn't show that you are a wimp. It's the exact opposite. It shows you're courageous enough to tell someone else instead of teachers and parents. Music?! How can music turn your world around?! Music can be INSPIRATIONAL!!! Parents won't take things away from you because you talked to someone who was trying to help you. They wouldn't take stuff away from you if they found out you were talking to a police men because your bag got snatched. You can talk to your counselor at school or look up a counselor in a phone book. Or you can still talk to me if my advice helps. Here's some advice: Try and ignore that weird boy. I think he's doing it for attention, but he's doing it in a wrong way. Also, never be afraid to talk to someone. Talk to your counselor immediately if you’re fed up with it. If you don't want your name coming up in a conversation, just say "There have been complaints about _______, and he's been hurting those people with their words" or somewhere around those lines.
2. Read here: http://www.xanga.com/doesowenloveme/595266590/my-problem.html?nextdate=last (SHUT DOWN)
BASIC JIST: Met guy online. Only met him twice, but talks on MSN and phone A LOT. Loves him and wonders if she should confess to him.
Anyways, first of all, are you sure you love him? Well, to me, he sounds like a really good guy friend, and not a boyfriend. Not sounding mean or anything, but if you've only met the guy twice then he might have a life of his own out of internet and the phone. Also, what I mean by the love part, is that you decided that you like him way too fast. Maybe you got the like and love confused. Don't feel like an idiot though, everyone does. Even I do sometimes. I've never been actually in love, but I've seen many relationships go downhill because a girl got like and love confused. In fact, I talked to a guy who said that a girl he liked already loved someone else. But, the girl told him that she loved him. And the girl chose the other guy, not him. See how this sort of relates to you? Anyways, I would spend one day making a list of what you like about him. DO NOT INCLUDE: He sends me love, or that he always makes me feel loved. DO PUT: We have a lot of things in common or he saved me from killing myself. Usually, when a guy sends love on a phone, he might just want to make you feel better. Also, he might just be playing with you. Do not suddenly get to this conclusion just because I said so. Just give it a little thought. Just like I said in the 1st paragraph, he might just have a life OUTSIDE of the phone and MSN.
3.I had this girl on xanga, I didn't think it was a big deal when I left and came back. When I came back she keep tlaking aobut how much she still loved me, but what see didn't tell me that she was someone eles during the time I came back... When I found this out it was already been a while, and the other guy found out and he started getting emo and winning and moping and other shit and she didn't tell me till I asked my brother and she then decided she wanted to tell. Me and then she says "I'm choosing him. I'm sorry" and I tried being cool about, but I was stupid... gave in to a weak moment and started freaking out about all of it... I'm an idiot. -Boy
ah. Don't let it get to you, ok? I know it's hard when you know the girl loves someone else, and just confesses her love for you. Sometimes, girls get the words "love" and "like" confused. When they're attracted to a guy, they automatically think it's love. But, it might just be like. Anyways, you don't have to always try to act strong, one breakdown won't kill ya, ya know? Confessing your problems to someone or even just doing something to calm you down, like watching TV or reading a book is good. Heh, and don't feel like an idiot. It's actually good that you admitted you felt a little emotional at that time. EVERYONE IS EMOTIONAL!! Even though boys don't show it, they DO HAVE emotions. So, it's alright. |
